Special Circumstances
Spending time in the Newborn Intensive Care Unit (NICU) or welcoming a baby with special medical needs pairs the joys of new parenthood with confusion and fear of the unknown. I first experienced doula care after my own NICU experience, and the most meaningful work I can do is to pay forward the care that was given to me in such a vulnerable time.
Trauma-informed doula care during and after a NICU stay can include:
Special attention paid to parents’ needs
Trauma-sensitive infant care
Running errands for you
Light housekeeping
Meal and snack prep for NICU trips
Designing a ritual for leaving the NICU at night, and for that special homecoming day
Baby massage instruction
Development-friendly toy consult and shopping trip
Additional care after bringing home a baby with special medical needs can include:
Design (or redesign) of nursery and home spaces
Help navigating state Early Intervention resources
Help compiling resources for siblings and family members
Note: I am not a medical professional and do not provide medical care or advice